Can controlling money be abuse?
Yes. Restricting access to money or essential resources can be economic abuse and can be part of a wider pattern of coercive control.
Understanding abuse & support
Frequently Asked Questions
Plain-language answers to common questions about domestic violence, safety, children and available support.
Common questions
Are children affected even if they do not see a fight?
Children can still be affected by violence and coercion in the home. Exposure may affect safety, wellbeing, behavior, learning and relationships.
Who can experience domestic violence?
People of any age, gender, background, income or education level can experience domestic violence.
Can men be victims?
Yes. Men can experience domestic and sexual violence and deserve to be heard, believed and supported.
Why might someone not leave immediately?
Safety risks, threats, children, finances, housing, isolation, love, stigma and fear of escalation can all affect when or whether someone leaves.
What kind of help is available?
Support can include advocacy, safety planning, referrals, housing-related support, education, mentoring and other services depending on needs, eligibility and capacity.
In need of services?
Need to talk with KBFLC?
Visit during walk-in hours, call KBFLC, or request a confidential callback for yourself when coming in is not safe or practical.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. Please submit the call-back request for yourself only.
Walk-in hours
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday: 9:00–11:00 AM and 1:00–3:00 PM
Wednesday: 1:00–3:00 PM
Request a safe call back
When an in-person visit is not possible, a confidential call-back request can connect you with a Kingdom Builder’s advocate.
Request a call back